The Exhausting Truth About Autistic Burnout You Need to Know

Autistic burnout is very real, and occurs from sensory overload, masking, and other challenges.Everyone suffers burnout once in a while; where you’re at the breaking point of when you’re so exhausted that you just can’t keep going anymore and desperately need a break. This can be from working too hard for physical, emotional, or mental tasks, or suffering from anxiety disorder fatigue.

In the case of people with individuals on the spectrum (or caregivers), people can suffer autistic burnout from everyday sensory overload, over-socializing or not enough, feeling forced to pretend to be neurotypical with masking, and many other challenges.

Doing all these things every day is exhausting in every sense of the word, so it shouldn’t be a surprise that one day they just can’t take it anymore and all of their energy is gone, tapped out, nothing left except for autism burnout.  

I know the feeling, as I have felt it many times throughout my life on the spectrum.

For many autistics and their caregivers, everyday life can involve intense levels of stress, anxiety, and energy expenditure.  Over time, this constant strain can lead to autistic burnout—a state of chronic exhaustion, loss of skills, and impaired ability to function.

As the autism community brings more awareness to this issue, autistic individuals, their loved ones, employers, teachers, and society must understand what autism burnout is and how to prevent and recover from it. 

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What Exactly is Autistic Burnout?

Autistic burnout is characterized by severe mental, emotional, and physical fatigue that significantly impacts every area of life. It leads to a diminished capacity to meet demands and a potential regression in abilities that were previously well-developed. Some of the common experiences associated with autistic burnout include:

  • Extreme, persistent exhaustion and lack of motivation
  • Temporary loss or regression of skills like language, social, academic, self-care, executive functioning, etc.
  • Increase in overtly “autistic” traits and difficulty masking or camouflaging
  • More frequent meltdowns, shutdowns, self-injurious behaviors and sensory overload
  • Physical symptoms like chronic pain, migraines, nausea, dizziness and general illness
  • Mental health challenges like depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts

The root cause of autism burnout is often a long-term pattern of pushing beyond one’s limits and intense expenditure of spoons or units of energy. This can happen knowingly when autistic people override their needs due to societal pressures. More often, it happens unknowingly from a simple lack of understanding of one’s own autism and support needs.

Many autistic adults have learned from a young age to mask their authentic autistic traits or camouflage their neurodivergence in order to fit neurotypical societal expectations and norms. This takes a major physical and psychological toll over years and decades of daily masking. Eventually, a breaking point is reached where the brain and body become overwhelmed and traits like exhaustion and anxiety disorder fatigue take over.

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Signs of Impending Autism Burnout

Autism burnout and anxiety disorder fatigue is extremely common and needs to be dealt with to prevent health challenges.It’s important to recognize the red flags and warning signs that autistic burnout may be looming. These can include:

  • Feeling completely drained of energy and motivation, even after a good night’s sleep
  • Tasks that were once manageable and completion of basic routines feeling utterly overwhelming
  • Increased frequency of visible autistic traits like meltdowns, shutdowns, stimming behaviors, scripting, and intense self-soothing behaviors
  • Major sleep problems like inability to sleep restfully or sleeping much more than usual
  • Increased sensitivity to lights, sounds, smells, textures and other sensory inputs
  • Suffering from anxiety disorder fatigue

If these signs are not heeded as a call to slow down and prioritize self-care, a full mental and/or physical breakdown may follow. This can severely disrupt the ability to work or attend school, follow self-care routines, regulate emotions, and maintain an overall baseline quality of life. 

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The Impact of Autistic Burnout and Anxiety Disorder Fatigue

Autistic burnout is more than just being stressed or having a rough period. It is a tenacious, severely disabling condition that can persist for weeks, months, or even years without proper treatment, accommodations, and prevention strategies.

Its harmful effects can impact every area of life:

  • Work/School – Inability to complete tasks, miss deadlines, performance issues, lost jobs/dropped classes
  • Home/Self-Care – Trouble with shopping, cleaning, hygiene, paying bills, basic chores
  • Social – Isolation, communication challenges, auxiliary mask loss, conflict in relationships
  • Health – Sleep issues, eating problems, worsening physical/mental health conditions
  • Financially – Loss of income/education leads to money problems and housing/food insecurity
  • Safety – Increased self-injury, suicidal thoughts, ambient meltdowns, sensory hell

In essence, an autistic person in burnout experiences a disability that must be accommodated accordingly. Recovery requires avoiding any further depletion and focusing fully on replenishment.

Preventing and Recovering from Burnout

While autistic burnout can’t always be avoided entirely, there are ways to reduce one’s risk and bounce back from it more quickly: 

  • Understanding your limits and respecting your need to say no to overcommitting
  • Creating a sustainable lifestyle with plenty of downtime, stim breaks, and low sensory demands
  • Cultivating environments that accommodate sensory needs (lighting, sounds, smells, etc.)
  • Building social support systems that accept your authentic, unmasking autistic self
  • Finding work, school, or living situations that avoid the need for excessive masking
  • Having access to accepting, neurodiversity-affirmative medical and mental health professionals

Recovering from autism burnout takes a significant time investment. Going on intermittent short-term “burnout breaks” isn’t sufficient for many individuals—extensive long-term rest and regeneration may be required. This extended rest period allows the brain and body to restore depleted resources.

During this time, accommodations and understanding from family, friends, workplaces, and communities are essential. An autistic person may need a break from chores, responsibilities, excess sensory inputs, social demands, and masking. They may require intermittent periods of seclusion to allow skills and abilities to be gradually restored.

Most importantly, autistic burnout must be treated as the temporary disability that it is. As with any disability accommodation, providing adequate support, modifying environmental demands, and making appropriate access arrangements are crucial for facilitating recovery. With patience, self-compassion, and proper care, autistic individuals can regain their full quality of life after burnout. 

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The Societal Cost of Autistic Burnout and Anxiety Disorder Fatigue 

Beyond the devastating personal toll, emotional fatigue carries immense societal and economic impacts that should not be overlooked. When autistic individuals are pushed to the point of burning out, it prevents them from participating fully in work, school, and community life. This represents an enormous loss of human potential, productivity, and the unique perspectives that neurodivergent people bring to the table. 

There are also significant costs related to an increased need for disability benefits, medical treatment, and support when burnout renders autistic people temporarily unable to be self-sufficient. From a young age, autistic students who experience burnout face higher risks of academic disruption, dropping out, and derailing future education and career paths.

In the workplace, companies lose out on the talents, skills, and innovative minds of burned-out autistic employees. This can severely inhibit diversity, creativity, and competitive advantages. Corporations that fail to accommodate autistic workers and create environments conducive to sustainable employment are ultimately doing themselves a disservice.

Autistic burnout can happen when individuals try too hard to fit in and be like everyone else.On a broader scale, societal marginalization and pressures to conform exact a heavy psychological toll that contributes to burnout. The masking and camouflaging required of autistic people leads to immense expenditure of energy reserves over time.

And, like everyone else, there is only so much mental energy and motivation to be had. The Spoon Theory does a great job of explaining this depletable resource.  We can all alleviate a significant burnout trigger by enabling environments where neurodivergence is embraced rather than suppressed.

The economic and human costs of autistic burnout demonstrate why prioritizing prevention, early intervention, and adequate community support is so crucial. Investing in proactive systemic changes to promote autistic wellness, for both the person with the neurodiversity as well as a caregiver who provides support and love, benefits everyone.

Takeaways About Autism Burnout and Its Impact on Wellness

Could you have autistic burnout? Here are factors to consider when considering the answer.

  • It is a state of chronic mental, physical, and emotional depletion from masking, overwhelm, and intense life demands
  • Warning signs include exhaustion, regression, meltdowns, shutdowns, self-injury, and deteriorating functioning
  • Underlying causes are often years of forcing oneself past limits, sensory overload, social pressures, and lack of support
  • Extensive rest, accommodations, reduced demands, and self-care are required for full recovery
  • Autistic burnout must be recognized as a real and disabling condition, not just “stress”
  • Prevention involves respecting needs/limits, reducing masking, accepting support, modifying environments
  • The personal and societal costs of NOT addressing burnout are too high to ignore
  • Increasing awareness, resources, and systemic changes to enable autistic people to unmask are essential

Life on the autism spectrum comes with many intense cognitive and social realities. By deepening our understanding of experiences like fatigue, we can work toward a future of greater acceptance, accommodation, and empowerment for neurodivergent individuals. When autistic people have what they need to be their authentic selves without judgment or inequality, the whole society stands to benefit from their incredible strengths.

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Increasing Societal Understanding of Mental Health Needs

As research sheds more light on autism’s many facets, prioritizing mental health supports and destigmatizing topics like burnout is imperative. By raising awareness and promoting acceptance, we can create a society where autistic people feel safe to unmask and openly discuss their needs. This will allow for earlier intervention when warning signs arise. 

With greater understanding from employers, communities, and loved ones, autistic individuals can feel empowered to set boundaries and take breaks before reaching burnout’s disastrous impacts. By moving away from conformity demands and making room for neurodivergent Support needs, we cultivate environments where autistic people can protect their well-being and thrive as their authentic selves. Recognizing and preventing autistic burnout must become a top priority – the human cost is too high to ignore any longer.

Only through increased awareness, systemic change, and true neurodiversity inclusion can we prevent autistic burnout and allow our community to flourish.

I’m trying to do my part to increase awareness and acceptance of neurodiversity so that there is no more masking. No more depletion of disabled lives. Autistics and neurotypes alike need to establish the well-being of all of us and create a future where spoons are not endlessly drained.

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Connor McClure

I'm a young adult navigating life with autism. By sharing my experiences and views, I hope to create a better awareness, understanding, and compassion for those on the spectrum. Let's connect!
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